Weight Loss Surgery: My Story

by Greis on July 21, 2011

in Health, Self & Body

In early January 2010 my weight skyrocketed to 295 pounds, the highest it had ever been. After years of dieting and failing, I had come to a point in my life where I knew something had to be done. It was about this time that I started considering weight loss surgery. I had considered the surgery option in the past, but insurance wouldn’t cover it and I felt like I was cheating the process and myself by not losing weight the “natural” way.

During my yearly gynecological appointment I spoke to my doctor about my weight and expressed to her my desire in obtaining information about my surgery options. We discussed the unhealthiness of my current state and she assured me that the surgery would not affect my chances of getting pregnant in the future. In fact, she said that my chances of getting pregnant would increase with the surgery and subsequent weight loss. She knew how long I’d struggled with my weight and said she thought the surgery might be a great path for me and recommended a doctor to do the surgery.

Prior to seeing the doctor for a consult, they require all prospective patients to attend a weight loss surgery seminar, where all surgery options are discussed and questions are answered by one of the clinic’s doctors. I went to the seminar in late January and then scheduled an appointment with the doctor. The earliest they could see me was a few weeks, which put me in the middle of February.  While I waited for my first appointment I continued to research my surgery options. I asked a nurse friend if she knew anything about my doctor and she confirmed that he is one of the best and highly recommended him as well, which was very reassuring.

My surgery process officially began at my consult appointment in February 2010. I met my doctor and we discussed my options a little more. He confirmed that I was definitely a surgery candidate and we decided that, if approved by insurance, I would undergo gastric bypass surgery.  During this appointment I met with the office’s insurance specialist and was advised that my insurance would cover the surgery and that they required all surgery candidates partake in a 3-month nutritional course and a psychiatric evaluation. I was registered for my first class, for the middle of March 2010, and sent on my way with a packet of information to look over.

Gastric-Bypass

The 3-month nutritional classes are in place to prepare future patients for life after surgery, and discussed topics like what foods to eat and which foods to avoid after surgery, what to expect before, during and after surgery, what a post-op patients food portions would look like after surgery and vitamin consumption. The classes were really informative and prepared me for what was ahead.

I scheduled my psychiatric evaluation at the end of April, because it needed to be completed prior to my final nutritional class. The psych evaluation is put in place to evaluate the patient’s state of mind and to be sure that he/she is not going the surgery route for the wrong reasons.  The doctor asked a lot of questions about my past dieting, my eating habits, my job and about my family support system.

I attended my final nutritional class in mid-May 2010. Once my final class was on the books, the insurance specialist submitted my file to the insurance company for approval and the waiting game began. I received an official notice from my insurance company about a week later informing me that I had been approved. I scheduled my surgery for July 20th.

Two weeks prior to surgery, on July 6, I went in for my pre-op appointment. I was given my official liquid-diet instructions for the following two weeks, I purchased my vitamins and protein powders and I discussed any concerns with my doctor. I then headed over to the hospital for pre-surgery testing.  My official 2-week pre-surgery weight was 306 pounds, my highest weight ever. All tests came back fine and the hospital officially cleared me for surgery as well.

I began my 2-week doctor required liquid diet, this diet is supposed to shrink your liver and prepare it for surgery, on July 7. I was allowed anything liquid (low fat milk, decaf coffee, jell-o, pudding, broth, etc) and was instructed to be sure that 4 to 5 protein shakes were consumed a day. The day before surgery, July 19, I was only allowed to drink clear liquids. I consumed lots of water, tea and sugar free Jell-O, of the not red or orange variety. Around 4:00 p.m. I was instructed to drink an entire bottle (about 10 ounces) of Magnesium Citrate. This is a bowel cleansing tool. It is supposed to clear out your system for a cleaner surgery. The magnesium citrate took a lot longer to start working, but once it started I was in the bathroom a lot.

My surgery was scheduled for 10:30 a.m. and I was to arrive at the hospital by 8:30 a.m. When it was finally time my anesthesiologist gave me a pretty amazing IV cocktail and I was rolled to the operating room. The next thing I remember is being awake and getting rolled out to the post-op area. I was told everything went well.

The next 48 hours were a whirlwind. After an hour in the post-op area I was finally rolled to my room. I felt really groggy but wasn’t in too much pain. My parents spent most of the afternoon keeping me company while I was in and out of sleep. I remember being really thirsty but wasn’t allowed to drink anything until after my leak test the next morning. I didn’t get much sleep that first night because of IV drips beeping, nurses needing my vitals at all hours of the night and some internal discomfort, mostly gas.

The next morning, on July 21, I was wheeled down to the x-ray lab for my leak test. An x-ray of my internals was taken and then I was given a small bottle of a contrast liquid to drink. I drank the liquid and then waited about 10 minutes and was x-rayed again. This test is done to make sure that everything was connected correctly and that there were no leaks internally. Once finished I was wheeled back to my room. I was finally allowed water and ice chips. About an hour later I started walking.

The next morning, on July 22, I passed the “pee test” and my doctor cleared me for release. I was beyond excited. By 11:oo a.m. I was a free woman and on my way home. When I arrived home I was in some pain, mostly gas, and went straight to lay down and get a little sleep. I was uncomfortable for a few days. The gas pains are very uncomfortable but bearable. It hurt to walk some of the time and turning while laying down was hard.  The few days after surgery were a lot easier than I had expected.

As the weeks progressed I transitioned from different food levels. The first week after surgery I continued a liquid diet. I then graduated to a pureed food diet for two weeks, a soft food diet for a week and then I was cleared to eat any and all foods. Lucky for me I’ve had no issues with any foods that I have eaten.

I am currently one year post-op and have had no regrets with my decision to have surgery. It has been a life changing procedure that I would highly recommend to anyone that is considering it. I know how hard it is to lose weight. I know how hard it is to diet. Surgery is not for everyone and even with surgery, work must be done to succeed.  Yes, I do indulge in some of my favorite foods sometimes, but not as often as I would like. It is a tool that can help. I know that I can and will gain the weight back if I revert back to all of my old eating and non-exercising habits. I can’t guarantee that that won’t happen, but I will fight it every day for the rest of my life.

1 year post-op FRONT view

1 year post-op SIDE view

Greis (pronounced Grace) is a single, 30 something, Texas girl with an iPhone addiction. She loves her hometown Houston sports teams, Astros Baseball & Texans Football! When she’s not working as an inside sales analyst for a local manufacturing company, you can usually find her on the internet, watching trashy reality television or snuggling her niece, Audrey.  In her spare time she enjoys a good chick flick, reading teenage vampire books (the sparkly kind) and dreaming about what life will be like when she finally wins the lottery. You can read more from Greis on her blog, Amazing Greis.

Mackenzie July 22, 2011 at 5:24 am

Liscensed health professional here! Way to go Greis! I was trained at a gastric bypass center, actually where the procedure was invented. Anyone who thinks this is easy is crazy! This is major surgery with a long preparation and long recovery. Maintaining the weight loss requires constant discipline. The best thing Greis did was educate herself about her options and make an informed choice!

Amanda July 22, 2011 at 6:54 am

I liked the comment talking about how regardless of size we all face a struggle. People in general seem way to quick to judge, so while I think this post explains a lot, I am certain there are wide swaths of experience that didn’t make it in here.

I appreciate this space for how varied the stories are, just like women’s shapes and scenarios.

Jayme (Random Blogette) July 22, 2011 at 10:28 am

Greis, you are an amazing inspiration! I have struggled with my weight and body image my whole life and I have also watched countless family members struggle with their weight and body image. I applaud you for doing something about it. Too many people would just give up. You didn’t, you have fought hard to get this way. So what if you had surgery to help you out. It is amazing that we live in a country where this is possible. Bravo to you dear! Also thank you to the Curvy Girl Guide for publishing your story!

lacy July 22, 2011 at 11:02 am

ah! so cool. i just had a gastric bypass less than 2 weeks ago :)

AmazingGreis July 22, 2011 at 8:22 pm

Good luck to you!!

lil shewch July 23, 2011 at 9:55 am

Thank you for sharing your story Greis!! I have struggled with weight constantly, and am so frustrated with myself, and the cycles I put myself through. I lose weight, something throws me into depression, I eat emotionally, i get more upset since i’m gaining the weight back, and then get motivated again. Weight is such a struggle for so many people, and I thank you for making your stuggle so public- you truly have inspired me! Your photos are amazing, and it was so neat to see that. Thank you again for sharing your story, and being so inspiring!

Steph July 23, 2011 at 8:18 pm

I have a friend who also did this and I asked him flat out why he went through the surgery in the first place, especially since if you are seriously over weight you *DO* need to drop some poundage on your own.

He was honest about it and said no matter what I did, I couldn’t maintain a healthy weight, some people can’t. He’s a third of the size he used to be and looks great, but like he said it’s a permanent lifestyle change that you have to commit to for the rest of your life.

I’m a Chef IRL so diets and surgery are a career killer for me personally but I commend anyone who does this for the right reasons and sticks it out! I seen an episode on this very topic on Dr. OZ and it was very informative and educational.

For the hater(s) I feel that they’re just jealous. They’re likely wishing that they could do the same but don’t have the means or the insurance to do so. Just my opinion mind you. In any case, opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and sometimes they stink more then others!

You look fabulous lady! Congratulations and best of luck!

April July 26, 2011 at 10:46 am

Congrats Greis! You look great. My sister had the surgery 4 years ago and is now pregnant getting ready to give birth to her first child. :) We are so excited for her. Her pregnancy has gone very smoothly and her surgery was a non issue. :)

Liama August 17, 2011 at 2:09 pm

I do think it’s wonderful that you have found peace with yourself and lost weight, way to go! But I do have a question. I am always reading that to successfully lose weight and keep it off, you need to deal with the emotional reasons why you became overweight to begin with. If you lose weight this way (not meaning a quick fix, as I’m aware it isn’t, but a one day event that leads to weight loss), how do you figure this out in order to keep your weight off long term? Does it just end up becoming part of your journey, something you figure out along the way as you begin losing weight after the surgery? Did you discover anything new about yourself after that has helped you keep the weight off? Just curious!

Again, congratulations on your success!

Susy September 8, 2012 at 11:40 pm

I am new to this site saw the link in the lands end catalog. I have struggled with my weight my whole life and think everyone has to find what works for them.

I will say that its easy to sit at home and read an experience someone shared and get your soap box out and start typing.
I had a friend one time who said his mother always said you never know what a relationship is like unless you are in it and I have tried to apply that thought to many things in my life. I agree with those who have said if you had another medical problem would you get medical help?

I quit smoking years ago one of the hardest things to do I took medication to be able to quit. I have been blessed to not take it up again. If only I could stop eating right?

Ok putting my soap box back in the closet. Greis good for you in finding what has worked for you. I am considering surgery and it was great to read your experiences and prospective. Thanks

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