Say Anything

Attention Guys: 12 Sexy Movies To Get Your Lady In The Mood

by Angie on November 8, 2011

in Curvy Pop, Sex & Relationships

I don’t know a lot about men, aside from what I’ve learned from being married to one for the last 13 years. But, if you’ve found yourself in the company of a male significant other, you probably know as much as I do about getting a man in the mood for Business Time.  Which basically equates to a woman paying little to some attention to his package, and just like that, he’s ready for action.

Women, however, are a little more complex when it comes to getting in the mood.

(If this information comes as a shock to you, you’re probably single.)

More often than not, women need more than just a shoulder rub and a poke in the back to get in the mood for Business Time. If you did the dishes that night, you’re on the right track, but why not amp things up a bit by putting on a steamy movie to help get her turned on?

This is a really simple way to romance your lady. And, I’m not judging you for going the easy, lazy route. In fact, I congratulate you for thinking ahead.

Now, what movies will help get your woman in the mood? What can you put in the Blu-ray player while turning down the lights and handing her a glass of pino, that will get the warm fuzzies fluttering in her belly?

Please note: This time I’m not talking about the X-rated stuff, because you can get that for free on the internet. I’m talking about the movies that make her melt into your arms like buttah.

Say Anything
Almost any movie with John Cusack will make your woman’s heart skip, especially if she’s over 30. But Say Anything is the movie that reminds girls that there are men out there who will do whatever it takes to get the woman of his dreams. WE LOVE LLOYD DOBLER!

The Twilight Saga
Say what you will, if your woman is a Twi-hard, she will melt for Edward or Jacob for a solid 2 hours, then she’ll melt for you when the movie ends. You’ll be her hero for the night and probably the day after.

The Notebook
WARNING: This movie will either leave your woman exhausted from bawling her eyes out or make her want to leave you for a better man. I’ve not personally seen the movie for those exact reasons, so do your homework before putting on this movie, and proceed at your own risk.

Brokeback Mountain
Now, you might be thinking to yourself, “What in the … are you insane?” STAY WITH ME HERE. If your woman is a progressive sort of gal who has a soft spot for her gays, she’ll triple love that you want to watch this Academy Award-winning love story with her, without trepidation. Just make extra sure you don’t make comments about “not wanting to see two dudes making out” while you’re watching. It will spoil the whole mood you’ve worked so hard to set.

You may think that it’s counterproductive to watch a movie about being unfaithful, but hot damn, the sex scenes in this movie are beyond hot. They might even get your gal hungry for Diane Lane, herself.

Interview with the Vampire
Way back before Twlight, True Blood, or Buffy (and before we knew Tom Cruise was crazy), this movie came onto the scene with hot vampire sex and pointy teeth. Remind your lady of what it feels like to be bitten by Vampire Brad Pitt (before he cheated on Jen with Angie).

If she’s a classics kind of girl, she’ll want to watch Casablanca again, no matter how many times she’s seen it. Instant win for you.

Thomas Crown Affair
It’s Pierce Brosnan back when he was extra super hot, saving the world, and having sex. DONE and DONE. *Thanks to CGG reader, @dadarocks , on twitter for this suggestion!

Maggie Gyllenhaal crawling on her hands and knees dressed as a secretary? The ladies love her.

Original Sin
This is a two-for, guys! You get to watch Angelina Jolie and she gets to oogle Antonio Banderas. What it lacks in the quality department, it makes up for in the sexual tension department.

This one’s for the girls who love the Sci-Fi category. Or the Nathan Fillion category. Or the Joss Whedon category. Basically, if your lady is a fan of Dr. Horrible, Firefly, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, or Dollhouse, get this one for your date night.

9 1/2 Weeks
I almost didn’t put this movie on the list because it’s my dad’s get-in-the-mood movie, but I’m 35 and can deal with that now. Or not. Ahem, if your lady is into 80s movies where Kim Basinger gets naked and gets it on with Mickey Rourke before he ruined his face, put this movie on. *Thanks to CGG reader,  Hap Pygirl , on Facebook for this suggestion!

Any Movie That Stars A Guy On Her Laminated List 
You should know at least one or two of the men she has on her Laminated List. Pick any of those men, look them up on, and pick the movie you think shows the most of her man’s skin. Instant turn on.

What movies get you in the mood for getting in on?

Angie Lynch is the founder and managing editor of the powerhouse women’s literary community, Smut Book Club. She is a Native Floridian without a tan, probably because she spends her days hard at work on the magical internet. For the past several years, Angie has worked way too hard at building clout as an influencer in food and margaritas as well as being a source for laughable pop culture commentary. You can read more from Angie on her blog, A Whole Lot of Nothing.

image credits: 20th Century Fox, New Line Cinema, Warner, Universal Studios

Ashley November 8, 2011 at 7:31 am

The Departed – full of hotties and my daydream love scene (starts on the kitchen counter) with a finally-grown-looking Leo.

Rome – Ok, I know it’s tv, not a movie, but if you get the series, you can watch one episode every time you wanna get it on. It’s where I first was introduced to Kevin McKidd, aka Dr. Owen Hunt from Grey’s. HBO/BBC so the sex scenes are hotttt.

Blue Valentine – The movie will make you bawl so for sexy time, just watch the bonus scenes. Oh. My. God. Ryan. Gosling.


SwingCheese November 8, 2011 at 9:27 am

I second Rome. I’ve never found men dressed as Romans hot until James Purefoy sauntered onto the screen as Marc Antony. Yum!

Greis November 8, 2011 at 8:04 am

Anything with Justin shirtless in it…I really just want Justin in my bedroom forever!! I’m single, he’s single…can someone make this happen? :)

A more recent movie that could also do the trick is Crazy Stupid Love…because hello Ryan Gosling!!

Rachel November 8, 2011 at 11:04 am

The lift from Dirty Dancing … what the!

Where’s the bedroom!

Greis November 8, 2011 at 11:06 am

How could I forget Dirty Dancing. And Pretty Woman. Because, really, who doesn’t envision being a hooker at some point in their life?

Jamie November 8, 2011 at 8:08 am

Colin Firth movies. Swoon. I’m not sure my husband wants to sit through 6 hours of Pride and Prejudice, though, to wait for me to be ready :)

As for Twilight, the acting in those movies makes me laugh my ass off. Probably not a good choice for me.

Rachel November 8, 2011 at 11:06 am

Bridget Jones’ Diary then. He’s still Mr. Darcy. And that kiss at the end … *sigh*

Jamie November 9, 2011 at 9:20 pm

You’re right. I watched Bridget Jones today while the kids were at school, and Colin Firth is just as hot in that. I’d forgotten! Now I just need to find my husband…

KC November 8, 2011 at 8:17 am

Unfaithful… so damn good!

Mackenzie November 8, 2011 at 8:50 am

Unfaithful is the only cheating movie I can stand! Normally any kind of cheating in a movie is a huge turnoff, but that movie…is…unbelievable.

Dawn K. November 8, 2011 at 9:48 am

YES to the John Cusack.

Chicago makes me want to get all naughty, flapper style!

Brittany November 8, 2011 at 10:34 am

Nothing gets me hotter than Secretary. Nothing.

bellawriter (Nuala Reilly) November 8, 2011 at 2:57 pm

When he tells her how many peas she can eat….come ON!! That is crazy insane hot.
(though if my hubs told me that, I’d probably smack him)

Wendy May 17, 2012 at 12:43 pm

So maybe 50 Shades of Gray is really this generation’s literary version of Secretary?

Rachel November 8, 2011 at 11:12 am

L.A. Confidential. All those guys looking dapper in their suits, and I love how women in that era exuded sex appeal in such a classy way. And while Russell Crowe does nothing for me, the chemistry between him & Kim Basinger … yowser.

Also. Love Actually. I will literally rewind the end and watch it repeatedly. When she jumps into his arms … *swoon* And Jamie and Aurelia. I know I seems insane because I hardly knows you.

Holly November 8, 2011 at 11:59 am

Exactly… “just in cases”… come on!

Amanda November 8, 2011 at 11:46 am

ok first…I am totally loving that you included Serenity!!!!!!! Nathan Fillion…..sigh…sigh…and holy hottness!!!!! Pride and Prejudice with Kiera Knightly and Matthew McFadyen….mmmmmm now that’s a hot Mr. Darcy!!!

Chocolat with my second husband, tho he doesn’t quite know it yet, Johnny Depp…that’s a great movie and he’s looking so yummy in this one as well.

MegglesP November 8, 2011 at 1:39 pm

I will probably get laughed at for this, but I LOVE Cold Mountain. The scene with Jude Law and Nicole Kidman finally hooking up? oh my

bellawriter (Nuala Reilly) November 8, 2011 at 2:55 pm

Ha ha!! I find this soooo funny after my post today. I guess I should have used movies as the motivator instead of the book. Plus, I LOVE Antonio Banderas. Love him.

Untypically Jia November 8, 2011 at 3:30 pm

Yes, yes, yes. Serenity will ALWAYS do it for me. Nathan Fillion, oh Baby.

Crystal November 9, 2011 at 10:03 am

Couple’s Retreat always does it for me…and strangely so does The Break Up

Deb November 11, 2011 at 9:40 am

“Love, Actually”.

Does it for me EVERY TIME. Because COLIN FIRTH….HUGH GRANT…..LIAM NEESON….ALAN RICKMAN. OMG – what’s not to love there????

Sarah May 17, 2012 at 11:39 am

I realize this was like 7000 years ago but um how did nobody mention “Bound” ???? Jennifer Tilly and Gena Gershon??? Holy hotness Batman!

Xiaobo Nestler March 31, 2013 at 12:56 pm

I have to agree with Deb—Love Actually. Colin Firth’s proposal scene and the reunion at the airport at the end…Everything about that movie just melts my heart.

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